All of these fit together. Especially as young adults, cancer turns our lives upside down. Not all of the elements of life as we knew it before cancer, "BC", are going to fit into our new post-cancer lives. In order to thrive again, that means making changes in our lives. New friends, new routines, new approaches to life, new philosophies, and even new religions. Trying new things means going outside of your comfort zones by nature, and that's ok. You might have to let go of some of the old, to embrace the new. It's all a part of finding that "new normal". You don't have to know what you're looking for. Just keep an open mind and keep on looking, and maybe you'll find something far greater than you could have possibly imagined.